{"id":2384,"date":"2010-12-25T14:30:20","date_gmt":"2010-12-25T22:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/janaremy.com\/?p=2384"},"modified":"2010-12-25T14:30:20","modified_gmt":"2010-12-25T22:30:20","slug":"wrung-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.janaremy.com\/pilgrimsteps\/2010\/12\/25\/wrung-out\/","title":{"rendered":"wrung out&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a title=\"christmas 2005 by pilgrimgirl, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/pilgrimgirl\/3110338955\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3180\/3110338955_1b59e12261.jpg\" alt=\"christmas 2005\" width=\"375\" height=\"500\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nNavigating the holiday season while going through this divorce hasn&#8217;t been easy.  It&#8217;s been a time of making new traditions rather than remembering the old&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cTo love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one\u2026wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket\u2013safe, dark, motionless, airless\u2013it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.\u201d<br \/>\n~C.S. Lewis<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>Photo above is from Christmas 2005.  Now the kids are as tall as that Christmas tree&#8211;no chair necessary!  \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Navigating the holiday season while going through this divorce hasn&#8217;t been easy. It&#8217;s been a time of making new traditions rather than remembering the old&#8230; \u201cTo love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. 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