{"id":832,"date":"2007-03-14T15:42:00","date_gmt":"2007-03-14T15:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/janaremy.com\/?p=832"},"modified":"2007-03-14T15:42:00","modified_gmt":"2007-03-14T15:42:00","slug":"the-hardest-part-part-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.janaremy.com\/pilgrimsteps\/2007\/03\/14\/the-hardest-part-part-i\/","title":{"rendered":"The Hardest Part, part I"},"content":{"rendered":"

For those of you who are new to pilgrimgirl, this is an installment in my ongoing effort to explain why I left the Mormon church about a year ago. You can find related posts here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This will be the hardest part of the story to tell. But I think I\u2019m ready now. Why is it so hard, you ask? Maybe because it matters so much. Maybe because it took that long to find the words to tell of the experience. <\/span><\/p>\n

So I was sitting in church on a very typical Sunday. We were having a fairly unordinary meeting where the men\u2019s and women\u2019s groups were meeting together for an hour after Sunday School (usually the adults meet separately during this part of church). John wasn\u2019t attending church with me on this particular Sabbath. So I sat by myself in the back of the room, empty chairs on each side of me. I didn\u2019t mind being alone, really. If I sat with friends I was generally too distracted to pay much attention to the meeting. And for whatever reason, this particular Sunday I actually wanted to listen, perhaps because many weighty issues were on my mind. Specifically, I was concerned about John\u2019s apathetic attitude towards church, I was thinking about my son\u2019s upcoming ordination to the priesthood (it would occur on his 12th birthday), and I was musing about my own difficulties with some particular church doctrines.<\/p>\n

The Bishop announced a line-up of 4 or 5 male speakers who would discuss various fundamental gospel topics. A few of them got up to the podium to give their spiels. Near the end of the meeting an older man addressed the issue of the Restoration of the Gospel. He began by discussing Joseph Smith\u2019s Vision of the Father and Jesus Christ and then launched into an extended discussion about the Restoration of the Priesthood. He gave specifics of how this occurred through angelic visitor\u2019s conferring ‘priesthood keys’ on Joseph Smith. Following that, the speaker delineated each of the LDS ordinances that are administered by priesthood holders and emphasized their necessity for salvation.<\/p>\n

During much of this man\u2019s talk I found myself impatient. I felt I\u2019d heard this so many times. There was no fresh insight in his words, no illuminating inspiration. I grew weary of the meeting and was looking frequently at my watch, hoping that the talk would be over soon. <\/p>\n

As he began discussing the necessity of priesthood ordinances, however, my feelings began to turn. I focused intently on what he was saying and as I did so, I felt a heavy black fog settle in around me. It was prickly and cold. And then I felt pressure squeezing against my entire body. I looked around at the other people sitting around me in the meeting. Their faces were impassive. <\/p>\n

I tried to understand this feeling that was now so uncomfortable that I felt nauseous. I fought an almost overwhelming urge to stand up and get up out of the meeting. Not wanting to make a scene by leaving, I turned inward, asking myself What is going on?<\/span> As I did so, distinct words formed in my mind: I DO NOT BELIEVE THIS<\/span>.

To be continued in part II<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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