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Our House is a very very very fine house…

For your viewing pleasure, I’ve created a brief house tour video. This is for all those folks who are shocked/amazed/mortified that our family lives in ~750 sq ft of space. Of course, if we were in Japan, we’d probably have half this space and call ourselves lucky. But here in SoCal, our ‘living small’ lifestyle is definitely an anomaly.

The tour is limited to half of our home, so you’ll miss about five bookshelves (primarily the kiddoes’ books and our magazines and journals). TobyJoy decided not to make an appearance in the show (EllyCat is the star) and John, CatGirl and GameBoy were at school during the tour, so the house is pretty quiet. One note: I mention that the table in the LR is “my desk,” well it’s also the heart of our home. We eat meals, watch movies, play games, read books, pray, and entertain guests around this table. Even as I type this post, John and I are working on our laptops at the table, and CG has a whiteboard that she’s drawing on at the table.

Our home is my very favorite place. There is a lot of love within these walls. It’s not fancy, but it’s home. 🙂


PS: kudos to John for helping me to compress the video for youtube!
PPS: Did you notice my oh-so-vintage-cool record player?? I’ll play some of my 80s record collection for you the next time you drop by for a cup of tea 🙂

A Fowl Afternoon


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Last week, Dora and I took CatGirl and GameBoy to hear author Eoin Colfer speak about his latest installment in the “Artemis Fowl” series. Colfer, speaking with his thick Irish brogue, captured the attention of about 75 kids for a nearly hour-long booktalk and had a booksigning line that stretched 3 blocks long (ah, but we were 3rd in line, lucky us!!).

Thanks go to Dora for remembering her camera and taking this lovely photo. 🙂

Make me smile…


–the new huge oriental-style RED rug that the kids and I ‘rescued’ from our dumpster area and now graces our living room floor (before you get too grossed out, do know that it is a very clean rug that was nicely rolled and ready for a new owner).
–the way the kitties frolic on said rug and chase at the fringe on the edges
–the little chunk of hair that’s poking straight up on the top of GameBoy’s head. He’s sitting at his computer and is focused on completing his homework. Adorable.
–Catgirl wearing a red blanket across her shoulders as batwings, swooping around the living room as I tell her that our friend Peggy plays the flute and wants to play with CG.
–receiving a package of photos from my newest cyber-friend. Seeing her lovely face and her sweet children for the first time.
–studying on the back porch this afternoon. Burning a stick of vanilla incense and letting the scent wash over me as I read The Age of Reform.
🙂

milestone

Well, GameBoy attended his first school dance on Friday (it was a pretty casual affair–just two hours of fun and music after school let out). Though he told me that the boys don’t really dance, they play ping-pong and foosball in the multi-purpose room to pass the time, when I picked him up from the dance he told me he had really danced. Just a few songs. With a group of friends. Of course I couldn’t help but thinking of my little dancing boy, the one who could really get a groove on–usually wearing only winnie-the-pooh underpants, his tap shoes, and a cowboy hat–well I imagine that his dancing was a bit more subdued at this event, but it still pleases me to know that my son is growing up and having such novel experiences.

When he was getting out of the car when we got home, he told me his legs were really sore:

“Because I didn’t sit down the whole time, Mom…I was socializing.”

I thought of my own years at such dances: the awkwardness, the many return trips to the punch & cookies table, ridiculous party decorations to make the school gym look ‘festive,’ the thrill of heading out to the dance floor and the accompanying fear that I would make a fool of myself as I danced, and desperately ensuring that I was surrounded by friends–the constant vigilance to make sure I was never alone and looking like a wallflower. And, yes, the familiar ache in my legs afterwards. From so many hours on my feet.

After he got home from the dance he let us know that he had an 8 pm appointment to play World of Warcraft with a buddy.

I think my baby boy is growing up and getting a social life.

new names

FYI for my regular blogreaders: CatGirl and GameBoy are the new aliases of the pilgrimkids formerly known as E & C. 🙂

Not much else to say except that THE GRADES ARE IN (thus, summer teaching responsibilities are officially over). Meaning, that I now have 1.2 days of summer left to enjoy before school starts again. woohoo.

supercut

Junior high school registration was this morning. Unfortunately, late last night I realized that school pictures would also be this morning. Oops–I’d let C grow his hair out all summer long. As a result, in the past month his hair had developed a mind of its own–standing up each morning in a tangled mass and demanding mini-wheats for breakfast because that’s what the unruly hair beast likes best. I had to do something so he wouldn’t experience a lifetime of embarrassment over his 7th-grade yearbook photo! (I can just see it now–he’s won the Nobel Prize and just as he steps up to the podium to receive his award, someone flashes his jr high photo on the screen over his head and the audience recoils with laughter)
Flashback to when C was a baby: despite the fact that he only had 4 strands of hair on his egg-shaped head, those 4 strands would invariably lie in a tangled knot on the top of his crown every morning. It’s an innate gift, I think. Hmmm…it must come from John’s side of the genepool.

So I got up early (ok, early for summer, which meant about 8), got the clippers and took C out to the back porch for a super-fast super-cut. It took about 15 minutes and it turned out pretty well. So well, in fact, that all the long-haired girls wearing micromini skirts seemed to recognize C just fine, looking super-cool as he showed the babes the right way to spin the dial on their new combination locks.
Note: why is it that every single girl seemed to be wearing the exact same skirt and skin-tight T-shirt?

C got his schedule, PE uniform, and his student ID card, while I signed 57 forms and wrote out just about as many checks. C opted not to upgrade his ID to an “ASB Card” by paying for all the school dances ahead of time. When I queried him about the dances, he wrinkled up his nose, peered over his glasses and sighed deeply, imparting the wisdom of the ages in this brief statement:

“I’ll do the pay-at-the-door option if I decide I want to go to any of the dances, Mom.”

down memory lane

My first blog was at www.enivri.com. When I ceased paying for my own domain name, the blog disappeared and I never bothered to save my posts anywhere.

John recently showed me how to use the “wayback machine,” which gives a window into my world from 4 or 5 years ago through its archives of my old blog. This is cooler than cool.

–See my post on enivri.com after my first attempt at rock climbing [Note: my butt is not really as big as it looks in this particular picture]
–The post where I write about our move to a teeny-tiny apartment at UCI–a rather momentous event in our family’s history.
–My farewell post at www.enivri.com.

swimtime



As I mentioned earlier, much of my time this last month has been spent at the pool. The kids have two hours of swim practice daily, and then have 6 hour swim meets each Saturday morning.

The swimming, though time consuming, has been a delightful family activity. I join the kids in their daily practices (I am quite proud of the fact that I can still outswim the kiddoes, but I suspect this has more to do with my longer body than with my inherent speed). The Saturday meets, though they can be tedious–especially this last meet where we endured 100+ degree heat and all felt quite sick afterwards–are also great fun. I’ve included a few photos for you to see our family whiling away the time between races….